How to Choose the Right Guardian for your Children
Choosing a guardian for your children is one of the most important, and emotional, decisions you’ll make as a parent. It’s not easy to imagine someone else raising your children, but selecting a guardian now ensures they’ll be cared for by someone who shares your values and love if the unexpected happens.
At Holt Legacy Law, we help Maryland parents create estate plans that protect their families from uncertainty and give them peace of mind knowing their wishes are clearly documented.
What a Guardian Does
A guardian is the person you legally appoint to care for your minor children if both parents pass away or become unable to care for them. This person will have the authority to make decisions about your child’s health, education, and daily life.
Without a named guardian, the court will decide who will raise your children and that decision might not reflect your wishes.
Qualities to Look For in a Guardian
When thinking about potential guardians, consider both emotional and practical factors. There’s no perfect choice, but there is someone who’s the best fit for your family.
Ask yourself:
Values and parenting style: Do they share your approach to discipline, education, and family life?
Age and health: Will they have the energy and stability to raise your children into adulthood?
Location: Would your children need to move far away, or can they remain close to friends and family?
Financial responsibility: Are they capable of managing funds or working with a trustee to support your children’s needs?
Emotional connection: Do your children already have a strong bond with this person?
Naming a Guardian in Your Estate Plan
In Maryland, you can name your chosen guardian in your will. You can also leave instructions for how you’d like your children to be raised, such as education preferences or religious upbringing.
For additional protection, many parents set up a trust so a separate trustee can manage the children’s inheritance ensuring your guardian has the financial support needed without the burden of handling every detail.
How We Can Help
At Holt Legacy Law, we help you think through these decisions carefully and document them clearly so the court and your loved ones have no doubt about your wishes.
Even if your children are young, planning now provides long-term security and updating your plan as they grow keeps it aligned with your family’s needs.
Prefer to speak with someone directly? Call us at (410) 864-6395. We’re happy to help.
